exactly the point i'm trying to make, from someone who understands it a thousand times better than i ever could.

*holds you tight*

and it's totally unfair that they've tied your gender identity to other issues like this. if you ever want to try and seperate them, i'll support you as much as i possibly can, but i won't think any less of you if you don't. because, like you say, you're happier now than you've ever been. and that's something that i'm really glad about, you know.